I appreciate you, bro… I think since I’m a people person, my capacity to reframe other peoples’ nuisance-like qualities as longing for community or other things is pretty strong. When it comes to family members I’m pretty open when their desires or needs are not something I’m able to meet and share as lovingly (though while frustrated and angry) as I can to let ‘em know how I’m feeling…
And thank u for your words bro. I appreciate you.
How does the word nuisance hit you when it comes to your personal life? Is this something you ever wrestle with?
As a kid, I was a trash talker, so I was a nuisance, but on purpose, and would have to fight at times to back it up. I have mostly matured since then.
I don't seem to have the feelings that i am potentially a nuisance to others. Over the past couple of years, I have noticed a maturity in myself to realize that if there are annoyances in someone I consider a friend or in family, that I can easily let it go (unless it's abusive or extremely toxic, ofc). But, as far as what you wrote on, I cannot relate unfortunately.
Relatable. Relatable. The lies that grow with us and fit snugly as truth. But we can't breathe in these lies; they suffocate us from the inside.
Brother, you are such a gift. Truly.
Sharifa, not me tearing up! I'm truly so grateful for you :)
Curious... do you find others to be a nuisance and not tell them such (in a kind way)?
Great writeup bro. Hoping that this feeling doesn't continue to persist for you, especially because likely no one is thinking it of you!
I appreciate you, bro… I think since I’m a people person, my capacity to reframe other peoples’ nuisance-like qualities as longing for community or other things is pretty strong. When it comes to family members I’m pretty open when their desires or needs are not something I’m able to meet and share as lovingly (though while frustrated and angry) as I can to let ‘em know how I’m feeling…
And thank u for your words bro. I appreciate you.
How does the word nuisance hit you when it comes to your personal life? Is this something you ever wrestle with?
As a kid, I was a trash talker, so I was a nuisance, but on purpose, and would have to fight at times to back it up. I have mostly matured since then.
I don't seem to have the feelings that i am potentially a nuisance to others. Over the past couple of years, I have noticed a maturity in myself to realize that if there are annoyances in someone I consider a friend or in family, that I can easily let it go (unless it's abusive or extremely toxic, ofc). But, as far as what you wrote on, I cannot relate unfortunately.
thank you for reading!